by Dennis Coates | Adolescence, Adolescent Brain, Alcohol, Critical Thinking, Education, Parenting, Personal Strength, Teen Success
I once had a conversation with an intelligent woman about the value of team sports. She said emphatically that the idea that team sports promoted teen development was utter nonsense (not her words) and that team sports promoted aggressiveness and generally callous...
by Dennis Coates | Critical Thinking, Education, Programs
When I was a little kid, my mother read child’s books to me. I loved the stories, and I begged her to read them to me over and over. But on my first day of school, I told my mother I wasn’t ready, because I didn’t know all my ABC’s. As she...
by Dennis Coates | Critical Thinking, Education, Parenting, Teen Success
My wife has an amazing mind. She’s always my first reader for feedback about my work. She catches nearly all mistakes, points out ways to improve my writing, and makes helpful recommendations. I know why she’s so smart. According to her, her mother read to...
by Dennis Coates | Adolescence, Alcohol, Drugs, Education
For years now, instead of saying “Drive safely!” when people I care about are getting into their cars, I tell them, “Watch out for the crazies!” I know, it sounds a little weird. But not really. What I’m referring to are the “other...
by Dennis Coates | Adolescence, Education, Parenting, Teen Driving
In another post about teen driving, I made this recommendation: The key is for your prospective young driver to prove that he or she is responsible enough for you to trust them to leave your driveway in your car. This trust has to be earned over a period of years, not...
by Dennis Coates | Adolescent Brain, Critical Thinking, Education, Mentoring, Parent-child Communication, Teen Success
As I was coaching a twelve-year-old girl, I concluded with this summary: “In the future, some of your friends will want you to conform, so you’ll need to stand up for yourself and be the kind of person you want to be.” Her reply: “What do you...
